When we first started out with our significant other, sex tends to be so enjoyable. But, as time progresses, our lust for our partner tends to dwindle a bit since sex has become so mundane and routine especially if it influence the duration on last longer in bed that you do not feel the same excitement as you once did before.
Be that as it may, the good news is that you can still spice up your sex life by changing some things up. Today, I am going to talk about some great sex tips that guys can follow to heat up their sex life.
Why Good Sex is Important for Fertility
Before I start giving you some sex tips, it is important for you to know about this bit of information. You see, good sex actually helps both you and your partner to conceive a child.
For men, a good round of sex will make sure that they will dig deeper into their repository to deliver only the best sperm from the pack. While in women, it creates a perfect environment for the sperm to swim on- vastly improving their mobility.
Therefore, it is important that both parties are able to satisfy each other during sex. With that out of the way, here are some great sex tips to spice up your sex life:
Don’t Skip on the Foreplay
When asked what women want when they have sex, they always want to have foreplay. Kissing, touching, saying some sexy words are just things that you should do in order for both of you to get so aroused.
I’ve had many of my friends that talk to me that they guy just wants to pound their vaginas without ever considering to kiss them first. Do not be like these guys, gents! You want to make sure that both you and your partner enjoy the sex- not only you (you selfish jerk).
Also, you want to make the foreplay as deliberate and as slow as possible to set the tone and the mood.
Consider Trying New Positions
Trying out new positions can also help you spice up your sex life as well. You may want to try out some kinky positions that you’ve seen before in porn flicks. You also want to have sex in different places as well as this can most certainly provide that excitement that was long gone.
Have Open Conversations with Your Partner
They say that the hallmark of a good relationship is communication, so if you’re having problems enjoying some sex with your partner, then why not openly talk about it?
Women want to feel an emotional connection before they can really enjoy sex, so probably you want to start by letting them know how you feel, especially when it comes to their sexual performance.
You want to ask questions like, “are there new things you want to try out?” or “what makes you horny?” or anything in between.
Make Love More Often
Women actually love sex more than men do which is why you want to initiate sex more often.
Be Spontaneous About It
Lastly, women want surprises, which is also the reason why when you initiate sex, you want to be as spontaneous about it as possible.